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| American University students Lex Loro, David Troy and Nate Caspari after the "Coming-out Monologues" on campus at Letts Hall, Oct. 8, 2014 (Photo by Bose Mpuchane). |
American University’s LGBT community got together to share their coming-out stories. The event was held on-campus Oct.8, 2014 and apparently inspired by the famous “Vagina Monologues.”
More than 50 members of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transsexual, Queer group and their allies came to the show. 10 students did monologues written either by themselves or by people who wanted to stay anonymous. Most of them talked about finally understanding who they really were, and the difficulties and relief that came with that knowledge.
It was interesting to find that LGBTQ relationships have the same problems as heterosexual ones, including the issue of abuse. One monologue described the abuse a gay man suffered by his boyfriend. He talked about staying in the relationship longer than he should have, which is something battered women seem to experience. Another topic covered was the influence culture plays in being LGBTQ. The speaker was an Indian man who was afraid to tell his parents he was gay. He felt his parents wouldn’t accept him because of their conservative background. But they ended up being okay with it.
The piece the crowd seemed to like the most was performed by Lex Loro, despite the fact that it was a repeat performance. She basically wrote a 12-step guide to her younger self, telling her not to worry when things go wrong because things did get better. She talked about coming to "Gay U" and finally meeting people who openly accepted her homosexuality.
Alex Knorr is a lesbian who came to support the cause and watch her roommate perform. This was the second one she had attended. When asked about what the event meant to her, she said "When I first found out about the event, I was in the process of coming out. It gave me a platform to come out to my family in a way that I was in charge of and knew I was going to be positively received."
Knorr's roommate, Emily Ellis, considers the shows to be a safe space for queer people to come share their experiences. Additionally, she finds them a way non-LGBTQ people can show their support and educate themselves. A worker at the Center for Diversity and Inclusion, Caroline Deleon, asked herself why she had never been before.

